Yesterday there was a graduation ceremony in my college. Almost of the alumnus yesterday were my friends.
actually I never care about graduation ceremony, every times this ceremony are held i just passing the crowd in front of the building where the ceremony are held without any care. but yesterday was different, because two of my close friends were being the alumnus for yesterday graduation then i should of course joined with the crowd- with people who also waiting for sending their congratulation to their friend or family who would come out from the building.


while waiting my friends came out too, i started observe people in the crowd. Almost of them was the family member of yesterday alumnus but weren't their parents since their parents were also attend the ceremony in the building. their expression were just usual that like nothing special happened and many of them seemed tired. the noisiness came from undergraduate students who waited for their seniors or friends, who finally have became the Alumnus since yesterday, came out. They were really enthusiastic, much more than the family member of the alumnus today. I guess that's because they exactly knew how hard to graduate from this college.

felt the atmosphere around me made me asked my self would I join this graduation ceremony when my time comes? actually, i had been thinking about this again and again but even went i saw the happy face of my friends who came out from the entrance of graduation building, it still doesn't change my mind. i won't join this ceremony when I graduated.

why? first of all I don't think this is the way i want to celebrate my graduate. Graduate for me means a freedom, that I should celebrate with joyful, not with the bustle of fulfill a lot of requirement for joining the boring ceremony which cost a lot without any positive impact. instead of pay the fee for graduation ceremony I prefer to utilize it for shopping, buy new gadget, or join the entrepreneur camp. I'm grateful that my parents are okay with my thought. I know some of you would  disagree with me, but I don't ask you to agree anyway. everyone has their thought to celebrate the special moment of their life, for me I would prefer to give my self a present which can make me feel happy and enjoy. I don't think I should experience all of the moment which people thought just happen 'once in our life' if I don't feel there is something on it.

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Comment by Parapa Brahmsakha on November 28, 2011 at 17:36

I don't have any ideas about avoid the graduation ceremony before! But I really respect your decision.

 

In my own idea, I know that my parents always work hard for supporting my study- the tuition fees, the extra classes charge, the examination fee and the plane ticket to have an exam in another provinces. If I calculate the money that I used in only 3 years in high school to entrance to the university, it's almost 80,000 THB!!! yes, it's a very large amount but my parents can do it for me. So I think the graduation ceremony is the best way that they can see the education results of their children that they support- they are deserved to get it!

 

However, if I don't consider about the parents factor, I still want to be part of the ceremony. Last year at the graduation ceremony in my university I felt that there were lots of happiness atmosphere in that area. I saw many people smiled and laughed together so I felt happy and wanted to be in that mood when it's my turn! 

Comment by Nancy on November 28, 2011 at 12:24
Hi, Jie. How are you? Did chat each other for a while. I do understand your thought and I have no any comment that I do agree or not agree because when I was a university student before I graduated I was thinking about won't join a graduation ceremony but the person that can change my mind was my parent ( they didn't force me or disagree with me but I could felt their feeling at that time). On my graduated ceremony ( bachelor degree ) even I needs to woke up 2 am to did make up and set my hair also needs to wear high - heels and the weather was very hot but I didn't feel tired because of I could took a photo with my parent and can saw their smile as very happy and really appreciated with one of their daughter. :) its one of my great memory in my life.
Comment by fang on November 28, 2011 at 10:04

Thank you Sis ! 

I think if i went out from the entrance of graduation building I could not see my family or relatives.

I must feel sad.I want all my dear are happy  and celebrate this achievement. We take the photos and have dinner together.  hihi  


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Comment by English Teacher Jamie on November 28, 2011 at 5:15

Thank Edriany! That's an interesting decision. I think in England it is a good chance for us to say thank you to our parents for supporting us (emotionally and financially) throughout our studies. If your parents are happy for you to celebrate or remember this achievement in some other way then that's cool!

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